I went to QUEEN KA'AHUMANU elementary school yesterday, and I used both verbal language and non-verbal one. I think it is important to use both of them to have good communication with the students. When they studied about difficult things, they could easily understand what I meant by non-verbal language. But it is difficult to understand each other if we don't use verbal language. I used mostly verbal one yesterday. So I think verbal language is the most important when I would like to talk with them.
I will show you that I told a little boy what the root was. I read his textbook when he told me he couldn’t understand what the root was. He also told me that he didn’t know that with these words. “I can’t understand what this is.” “What does this picture show?” “Can you tell what the root means?” “I want to know that because I don’t know now. I am interested in this picture of this page.” Then I was surprised because he had never talked so much. I thought he really wanted to know what the root was. I had a little knowledge about nature because I liked studying nature at our public junior high school and senior high school in Japan. I told him what the root meant in the textbook and could show the root with the plant on the ground fortunately. He looked happy and excited when I told him that. I became happy and smiled. I felt a little bit of happiness with teaching them something.
In fact, I couldn’t tell a girl who was also one of the elementary school students what a picture in her textbook meant before. I thought I had to speak perfect English because I was a senior high school student and elder than them. But it was obviously important to keep speaking. I felt that when I couldn’t talk with her and stopped moving. Then I could have used non-verbal language if I had realized about that.
They inferred from my expression that I was happy or not. If I smiled at them, they smiled back at me. I thought smiling was a kind of non-verbal language. I wonder why behavior is also non-verbal one.
Dnilo, my English teacher told us the percentage of verbal language is 93 percent and the percentage of non-verbal one is 7 percent actually. I come to feel it is truth after my experience at the elementary school. The communication style that I used most with my elementary students was verbal language and a little bit of non-verbal one. But it was mostly verbal. I can say that people use verbal communication more than non-verbal one. We have so many emotions and we are human beings who can communicate with speaking and not animals.
Keywords: second elementary